The Great Promise of Service Dogs
by
Pam Wilson
My son and I were walking through a store one day when we met a woman with a service dog in training. She greeted my son and invited him to pet the dog while we chatted.
I had heard that some dogs recognized the onset of low blood sugar episodes in children with diabetes. My son had recently experienced seizures in the middle of the night due to an unexpected blood sugar drop during his sleep two hours after his 1:00 a.m. blood test. I had woken up hearing the sound of his head and feet bouncing every minute or so, and walked in to check on him.
He was laying very still, with his eyes wide open, pale and unnatural looking, when I found him. At the onset of the next stiff bouncing I was so relieved that he was alive that I cried out to him. He didn't respond but was able to sit up and drink two small cans of apple juice, with his eyes wide open.
I should have given him an emergency glucagon injection, but the apple juice worked quickly. He could not close his eyes, but he was able to speak. I thought he said "Need a hug" but a few minutes later he repeated the phrase a couple of times: "Call a doctor." His endocrinologist had already called back by that time. After a few more minutes, he could blink. I thought I should have put in some eye drops -- and the next day added that to his emergency kit by his bed. I would have added a service dog the next day, too, if such a thing were possible.
Since most of the symptoms of hypoglycemia my son showed were also the symptoms of being a seven to eleven year old boy, and other adults often attributed the behavioral symptoms to Down syndrome, I had been interested in finding a service dog for him before the seizure episode.
I learned from the woman at the store that it was a long and rather expensive process to acquire a service dog, but that the waiting time could be shortened if I committed to a two week training period at a facility in California where the dogs received their final training before being matched to a specific person. I believe the wait would then be a year rather than two years - the specifics escape me but she did give me contact information.
My son had obviously enjoyed his time with this dog while the trainer and I spoke, and she leaned down to ask him if he would like a dog of his own.
He smiled up at her and said, "I prefer cats."
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Biography
Welcome to the SoulSupporter.com website. I am glad you are here. You may feel the weight of the world on your shoulders today, or you may just want to be among others who understand the joy, pride, absurdity and delight we do still know, without having to explain it to those who believe those emotional states must be a contradiction in families like ours.
It seems as though all of my mothering life has gone on while I was a bit off balance, caught up in the small details of the day when I meant for it to be a well planned and slightly controlled journey toward reasonable and specific goals.
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"What I planned on the hottest day was sitting on a comfy lounge drinking iced tea; what I enjoyed most must have been petting a black cat in the shade"
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The self image I had grown from being a university student, holding substantial jobs, seeking justice and equity, and socializing with my peers, seemed to fall away when I first held my daughter and felt her breath on my skin. The world seemed to see me as a different person, like I was born into a second and unequal new life, but I did not have much time to think about that, because I was fascinated by the number of questions and concerns I had that were not among the priorities I stacked up before she was born.
I scarcely knew who I was, and wanted to know everything about who my daughter might be, and how to do everything 'just right' so she would reach her "highest potential." But I was very uncertain how to bathe her, and her adventures with fingernails and my clipping them were beyond my abilities to tolerate or comprehend.
My childbirth education instructor saved my life when I asked her whether my daughter was 'colicky' and she told me, "No, not if she ever smiles." Being deliriously in love with my baby and totally fascinated by every expression, sound and movement she made helped get me through the hardest times. My education and work experience, not so much.
When I was pregnant with my second child, I thought I'd learned enough to avoid the uncertainties and worries I felt when his sister was a newborn. But instead of a 'natural' birth, he had to be delivered via C-section. And he came with an extra chromosome. He developed jaundice, so he could not 'room in' with me. I dragged myself down to the nursery because I needed to touch and hold him, and when I picked him up found he was attached by wires to a heart monitor.
It has only gone downhill, and then up, and then down again, and up, from there. No matter where you are right now, I'm glad you have found SoulSupporter.com, and I hope you will share your story with us, here.
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The Special Needs Children website at BellaOnline.com offers information, resources and support for families raising children with special needs, developmental disabilities or delays, chronic health conditions and physical challenges. Articles also reflect the interests and concerns of advocates, teachers and other education professionals, medical support staff, human services and emergency response personnel, design professionals, community activists, friends, neighbors and extended family.
Pam Wilson's articles have appeared in Northwest Baby and Child, Mothering Magazine, and the Northwest Ethnic News. She is a graduate of the University of California, Berkeley.
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